Monday, September 13, 2010

Missing

Missing: The strangest thing happens in your head when you miss someone, separated from someone.


In the separation, you recognize that you are happy to be separated, or unhappy to be separated. In the unhappiness, a comprehensive ache develops. You ache when you think about them.



It doesn't matter if you are talking about someone you are intimate with sexually, or just emotionally, like a child, a sibling, even a parent. But, when it is someone you are intimate with sexually, there are things that you will remember and the memories will make you breathless when you recall them; the brush of a finger, a particular look, a touch, a kiss. The memories can bring back the most intense, vivid sensations. Something really interesting happens in your brain. I want to know what those chemicals are... they make me want that person... they make me want that person BACK. That is the ache that I am referring to. That is the ache of missing someone, something; a part of you